To Love and To Be Loved

When I read a book, watch a movie, or even listen to a sermon, I like to reflect afterwards, "What did I get out of that?  What can I take with me from that story?"

We recently watched the new movie version of Dune.  I'd seen the original movie, maybe 30 years ago.  I'd also read the book.  Honestly, the story just never grabbed my attention.

But it was family time; I watched anyway, and...nothing.  That is, nothing until...that one scene that I can't stop thinking about.

In this scene, the main character, a young man named Paul, is forced to be a "champion" for his mother and fight another man.  As Paul bests the man and asks him to yield, he learns that this is a fight to the death.  And Paul's mother responds, "But Paul has never killed a man."

That's when I started feeling what Paul must have been feeling.  He was going to take a life; and life, any life, is precious.  Paul is deeply moved as this man dies, and he exhibits kindness and compassion, even as he kills the man.     

We were created to love and to be loved, to know one another and to be known.  This truth is easy to say and to know, but it's not always easy to feel it.  In this movie, I felt it.

There have been a few times in my life where I've been privileged to feel that truth - and it's a feeling I cherish, certainly a gift from God.

God's Word says: 

God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.  Romans 5:8

We can assent to or agree with that statement.  But do we feel it?  And how do we feel it?  How do we feel God's love?

There is an aspect of "felt" love when we become aware of our own sin, know the shame and helplessness of our situation, and are then brought to repentance by the gospel, by Christ's death on the cross for us.  There's a comfort and a feeling in that, in having God's love for us shown in the forgiveness of our sins.

And we want that feeling, that reassurance of being loved.  I think that's why a lot of church services and even Christian books attempt to evoke emotion or make us "feel good."

But I think a main way that we "feel" God's love for us is through other people. 

A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.  John 13:34-35

Just as He loves us, we are to love other people, to get to know them, to serve them, to forgive them.  In that "loving of others" is the feeling of love.

 

And loving others isn't easy; it's tiring, and it's risky.  We can and do get hurt.  But knowing other people, loving them, and the risk of being hurt - it's worth it, because people are worth it.  

 

It was worth it to Jesus, to be born as a man like us, to live among us, to die for us.  And He did it for love, because He loves us, because He loves me.  

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God...In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.  Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.  No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.  1 John 4:7, 10-12

 

The Rock of Escape

I'm currently reading and studying 1 Samuel, and I'm fascinated by how the book compares the life of King Saul to the life of David.  

Saul was anointed as Israel's first king.  But early on in his reign, Saul takes things into his own hands, he disobeys God, and he loses God's favor.

David becomes Israel's second king, and like Saul, David also sins against his God.  But David retains God's favor.

There's a lot going on in this account, and it gets complicated.  So I've been trying to wrap my mind around some general teachings.

First, I think Saul, when he becomes king, he truly wants to be a good king.  But in the midst of ruling, he's influenced by the people, by the culture, and by his own desires and sins.  Saul actually thinks he's doing God's work and following God's Word, but he isn't.  

Second, David enters King Saul's service, as both a warrior and a musician.  And early on, Saul becomes jealous of David, pursues David, and wants him dead.

The book has various accounts of David fleeing from Saul and evading capture.  In 1 Samuel 23, in a mountain area, Saul is closing in on David.  Then suddenly, Saul is called away to fight against the Philistines, and David is saved.

That place gets called "The Rock of Escape." 

Third, the Bible speaks of David as "a man after God's own heart."  And it's not that David doesn't sin.  As king, David commits adultery and murder, and plots to cover them up.

But while Saul looks to himself and tries to justify himself in his sins, David sees his own weakness and confesses his sin to his Lord.  

For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me.  Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight...Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.  Cast me not away from your presence, and take not your Holy Spirit from me.                 Psalm 51:3-4a, 10-11

David knows, trusts, hopes in, and reveres His God.  In this prayer, David likely remembers how Saul had sinned and then God had taken His Holy Spirit away from Saul.  And David prays that His God forgives him and doesn't take the Holy Spirit away from him.

As I read through 1 Samuel, I'm reminded of David's prayers, the Psalms he wrote.  David's heart is always looking to his Lord to save him, to be that Rock of Escape.  Whether in physical danger or spiritual need, David cries out to God for help.

And the Lord does indeed stay with David and save him, over and over again.

In the same way, He forgives me and saves me, again and again.  My prayer is to have that humble and contrite heart that David had - a heart that looks to the Lord in trouble, in need, and for forgiveness.   

Prayer:

Lord,

Keep me in true faith.  Forgive my sins, and take not your Holy Spirit from me.  Help me to be in this world, but not of this world.  Keep my eyes on You and your love, and not on my self and my own agenda.  Help me to love and to serve others.

In Jesus's name and with the Holy Spirit.

Amen.